Well, one thing is for sure… unless you have delayed ejaculation, a woman generally does take longer to orgasm than men do.

And if you don’t warm her up, and penetrate her properly, it probably will take her 15 – 20 minutes to get off… and most men don’t know what the hell they’re doing when they’re in the bedroom, so either
1) the girl naturally has quick / easy orgasms,
or 2) she’s putting on a performance to please her man’s ego.
Thing is, it’s not that hard to even the playing field, and make a woman orgasm simultaneously, or even before you.

Well you could definitely try this methods below and you’ll maker cum faster than ever. Hey am a lady so i know what am talking about.

1. Get Her Mind Into It – Leading Up To, and During Sex

A woman’s mind plays a very strong role when it comes to her orgasm.






A TLC episode of Strange Sex reported on a woman who was able to “think herself” into orgasm, without any physical touch at all.

Scientists put her in an MRI like machine, studying her brain waves, and they were in fact identical to the overwhelming hurricane of brain activity that occurs during orgasm. She was having an orgasm just from thought.

While it took 30 minutes or so, and most women will NEVER come to this level of “self mental stimulation” necessary to have an orgasm, it does show how strongly her thoughts will influence her orgasm.

SO… send her texts telling her specifically what you’d like to do to her, throughout the day… build the anticipation. Talk dirty during foreplay, and during sex… when her mind is into it, and she lets loose, then orgasm will occur quicker.

2. Stimulate Her Clit Before Entering

This tip is especially important if you have problems lasting long.

Your tongue is the perfect tool to stimulate her clitoris as it has no “time clock” before it’s set to go off. Plus, the soft, warm physical sensation it provides… women love it.

Combined with some breaks for occasional dirty talk, going down on your lady will get her much closer to orgasm, so when you do penetrate, it won’t take that many stroke before she’s “gone off”.

(Extra tip: finger her upper wall with two fingers, with a “come here” motion, at the same time as performing oral… this will put pressure on her g-spot, which in reality, is the internal part of the clitoral cluster).

3. Choose a Position That is Beneficial To the Clit

In case you haven’t noticed, the clitoris is key to the female orgasm… if you don’t put pressure on the clit, you won’t be getting her off.

Unless a woman’s clitoris is close to her vaginal opening, doggy style will just be a fun position for you… while it will feel good for her, without a doubt, it will most likely not provide enough stimulation to make a woman orgasm… at least not any time soon.

4. One of the best “you on top” positions to get a woman off is missionary, while putting pressure on the clitoris with the lower pelvis / area right above the base of your penis. Rub hard into it on the in- and out-stroke.

It’s more like a very quick up-and-down rubbing against the clit, rather than an in-and-out “banging”.

Does she know how to get herself off when on top? Just watch her, and try to duplicate a similar motion when YOU’RE on top.







Or let her get herself off on top! If she just follows her instincts, and she’s hot and horny enough, she’ll ride herself off into orgasm in just a couple of minutes, and you can get off simultaneously, or right after her, in the position you choose!

It’s important that you pay attention to all of her erogenous zones as well… it’s kind of like entering a cheat code to skip levels.

5. If you are already penetrating correctly, or she’s on top, then sucking, pulling, spanking her “sexy parts”, preferably a few of them simultaneously (ask her what she likes; I’m sure she’ll point you in the right direction), combined with some dirty talk, and she’ll be tightening up, gyrating and vibrating into orgasm in no time.

6. Her Satisfaction is Your Key To A Solid Relationship – Or Repeat Customer

A woman will stay in a relationship with a broke, abusive, a-hole of a guy, as long as the sex is good, much longer than she’ll stay in a relationship with the perfect man, if he sucks in bed.Good sex is the glue that keeps a relationship together, and a fundamental part of good sex is two happy customers.

Whether you want a long-lasting relationship, or a friend-with-benefits that keeps on coming back, it’s important that you learn these skills… practice them, perfect them, and you’ll have a fundamental skill needed to keep women… and that most men are lacking.

7. Invest at least three minutes of your total 15 in kissing.














    • Studies by Lafayette College in the US found that kissing reduces levels of the stress hormone cortisol, quickening the time it takes to turn you both on. As you pay lip service, tilt your head to the right – scientists in Germany found this makes you seem more caring, flooding her system with the ‘connection’ chemical oxytocin, building trust and encouraging her to come quickly.

    8. Don’t just kiss her mouth, though.

    William Cane, author of The Art of Kissing (St Martin’s Griffin), surveyed 50,000 women and 96% picked a peck on the neck as the perfect warm up. But don’t overdo it, Cane says. “Slide off the lips to her neck occasionally so that her neck doesn’t become de sensitised.”

    Now you need to get co-ordinated. Each time you kiss her neck, remove another item of her clothes. Not only is this an important time-saver in your 15-minute window, but it lets you combat any body-confidence issues. A study by the University of Cincinnati revealed that if your girl feels good when she’s naked, she’ll come sooner. “Compliment your partner on each part of her body as you undress it,” says psychotherapist Christine Webber. “Your approval will dramatically reduce her self consciousness.” And in just 180 seconds, you’ll have an animal on your hands.

    9. She’s almost naked now but keep her underwear on for another minute or so.“Stroke and caress her through the fabric rather than going for gold,” says sex therapist Paula Hall. “Focus on building anticipation rather than going straight for direct stimulation.” Feeling that time is short prevents a woman from reaching orgasm,adds Webber. Act like you’ve got forever, but then peel off her underwear and use Durex’s new strawberry-scented Intimate Lube .This will get her excited, and make her more sensitive. Research at the USA association for Chemical Reception Sciences found the scent of strawberries alerts the senses. Move your fingers in slow, circular motions just inside her vagina. “Many women need attention focused on the outer third of the vaginal canal, where the G-spot, the clitoris, and the PS-spot (opposite the G-spot) can be reached,” says Emma Taylor of the sex blogemandlo.com. Women love a man who’s good with his hands…

    10. Flex your other love muscle According to sexologists at the Masters &Johnson Institute, cunnilingus is the most reliable route to orgasm for 80% of women.Lou Paget, author of The Big O (Piatkus), recommends the Kivin Method as the fastest way of getting there. “With one hand, pull up her clitoral hood,” he says. “Then lick from side to side across its base, just above her clitoris.” Place one finger of the other hand on her perineum (the area directly below the opening of her vagina). When you can feel her pre-orgasmic contractions, you’ll know you’re in the right place.
    11. Entrance exam Orgasms are not all about foreplay.A recent study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found that the consistency of orgasms is more about the length of intercourse than the length of foreplay. And another study in the same journal clocked her average climax seven minutes after penetration. That makes now the ideal time to climb politely aboard and start the final leg of her leg trembler.

    12. But what position? “Avoid deep, thrusting, and instead try the Coital Alignment Technique,” says Taylor. To do it, start in the classic missionary then pull back so the base of your penis rests on her clitoris. Brace your feet against the foot of the bed and rock backwards and forwards rather than thrusting. Your penis gently massages her clitoris,which is great for her but also gives you slow, pulsating sensations that you control.

    An alternative technique is sensory overload. “Simultaneous G-spot and clitoral stimulation is far and away the fastest route to orgasm,” says Hall. Having her from behind is the best position for this because whileyou work the former, you can call up sex-toy reinforcements to take care of the latter.
    Keep up the good work

    By now, your girl should be clawing at the sheets, but don’t be mistaken in thinking you need one final trick to clinch the result.“Women hate too much chopping and changing of techniques,” says Dr Joni Frater, co-author of Love Her Right (Booksurge). “It distracts us, and takes our arousal back to the starting blocks.”

    You don’t really want to start over just before you reach the finish, do you?“When you start doing something that causes a positive response, keep doing it, at exactly the same speed and pressure.” Save your new technique for next time. Since you’ve just orchestrated a 15-minute orgasm with shuttle-launch precision, that’s something she’ll be demanding very soon. So grab a breather and prepare for take-off… again

     

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